*note: this gonna b long.. on ur winamp w/ sum soothing songs.. goat.. plz off ur winamp cuz ur songs r nt suitable for this entry*

here am i in the middle of nite writing a so-called philosophy of mine... nw i'll start..

hu r the couples... couple consist of a guy hu loves a girl n a girl hu loves the guy.. reason of this love going on is nt impt.. this is a definition of couple in my POV(point of view).. i'll type it in 2 seperate portions.. 1 for guys.. the otha for girls.. ppl keep saying.. ladies 1st.. so i'll start w/ wad girls need to know...

girls.. u need ti understand tt males r much more practical than girls.. guys will alwaex think of solutions when there's trouble instead of an wei-ing girls... so please forgive the guys when they jump straight to solutions.. also.. guys are seen to be.. more manly.. more.. leadership in them.. in front of friends.. bcuz of the nature of bcum manly n more leadership in them.. they'll boost ard n such.. dun blame them.. cuz this is our nature characteristic.. be sure to understand tt guys need more practical things... hmmm.. lemme cre8 a senario.. there was this girl hu waited her bf for movie for ard 1/2 hr.. the guy went park car far awae frm cinema cuz places nearly cinema is fully occupied.. so this girl is thinking tt her bf went out w/ otha girl.. then later.. the guy did explained.. but the girl insisted on her stand.. nevertheless.. they went for movie.. inside the cinema.. the girl felt guilty as she agreed it was her fault to accused her bf.. so she moved her hand n grip her bf hand to how a sign of apology.. the guy look at her.. gave her a cold stare.. push her hand awae.. n cont the movie w. anger.. afta movie.. the guy just walked in front of her gf.. ignoring her.. the girl was mad nw.. she was thinking tt she alreadi admit is her fault.. she followed him.. up to the car.. the bf screamed at her.. asking y she haven said sry.. the girl insisted on her stand.. she alreadi show sign of apology by holding his hand in cinema.. n din said sry.. bcuz of this.. they broke up.. just becuz of the 2 words.., "i'm sorry," so girls.. this proved to u tt guy is quite practical.. using methods like holding his hand (the emotional style or girl style) wun work on guys.. words r impt.. words can kill n svae a relation of urs.. the point tt i'm trying to get to u girls is.. if ur bf is nt an wei-ing in any case.. dun blame them or get angry.. cuz is our nature.. also.. if u try to prove sumthing to him.. use words.. w/ actions... actions alone wun work on guys...

for guys nw... u guys are just so noobie... can u guys be more sentimental n more emtional to girls?... girls are emotional creatures.. being a bf.. is nt just a guy standing beside her n say, "yo brotha! this my charbo," girls are more.. so-called like a world of oni two person.. u n her.. u need to be a gd listener.. u know y there's time when ur girl wun tell u their troubles?.. cuz u're nt a good listener.. most likely girls will find girl-friends to talk abt.. cuz girls r very good lsiteners n they can keep secrets n duh... also.. please dun scold her or lecture her when there're truobles b/w u couple or troubles of hers.. u shld listen 1st n analsyt... n then.. an wei 1st.. please guys.. try to put urself in her shoes n feel wad they feel.. think of their feelings b4 u start ur lecture.. an wei them.. calm them down.. when they are calmed.. then u can tell her solutions.. wad girls need is sum1 hu listens... nt practical solutions.. there's time tt girls doesnt even need soltions.. they just need sum1 hu can share they sorrows.. they troubles.. n they will solve themselves...

for couples..
love is sumthing tt u need to support each otha.. when one has trouble n ask the otha partner to heck care u.. u know how the otha partner feels?.. think of each otha.. also.. when ur stead is feeling helpless.. u r the best medicine.. dun feel down just bcuz she/he said tt heck care them.. this will oni worsen ur relation b/w u n ur stead.. this sumthing for problem couples out there.. so long couples!...

-written for a friend of mine n for all couples having problem communicating-