so sian these few days.. after the BH.. hmmm sianed... think she know i hu's nitewalker le.. just 50-50 oni la.. neway... just did sum reflection on the book i read.. the book is "Li2 He2 Bei1 Huan1 Zhong3 Shi4 Yuan2" buy Liu Yong =p

i've been thinking alot.. i've thinking the past mistakes/ things i did in my relations.. i gt sum conclusion.. loving sum1 is nt for the sake of wanting love.. but for the sake of loving sum1.. understand? lol.. if nt.. let me explain.. k wanting to love is like u want to get into relationship for wadeva reason u have.. such as just broke up need new love for subt.. or maybe peer presure..=p.. if u love sum1 for the sake of wanting love.. this result in liang3 bai4 ju4 shang1.. if he loves sum1 for sake of wanting love.. he'll face problems such as xing ge bu he.. n also have some sort of worries/ trouble tt is nt necessary.. lets go to the person whu really love the abv person.. he/she will get broken heart.. will have a deep deep wound inside he/she.. which maybe wun heal foreva.. n have yin ying of a bgr...

lets go to a couple hu truly love each other.. frm my point of view.. both parties have a very great n heavy responsibilty for the relation tt they started.. sumhow when a new couple start on their sweet relation.. things come damn wel for them.. but after awhile.. both will start picking err on each other.. nw this a time tt responsibility comes in.. if u r picking err its ok.. but u must think.. if u dun like his/her action of sort.. wad for start the relation?.. right?.. so be responsible for starting the relation.. i'll take campfire for an example.. at first the fire is burning great.. but after awhile.. fire become smaller.. to miantain it u must put in more wood.. same as relation.. its both parties to motivate each other to continue w/ the relations.. to me.. a relation is nt mean to be borken but to continue till the day one dies.. both need to motivate.. both need to have commitment.. it takes two hands to clap.. if oni one party is feeding the fire, he/she will get bored soon.. bcuz deother party is nt giving any reaction or maybe hints to the person feeding fire.. in order to maintain it.. bothe parties should feed fire together.. either together or simutaneously.. =p.. its best both feed the fire together.. =p

lastly.. ppl reading me blog.. if u have frens love ppl for the sake of wanting love.. plz tell them this.. "stead fast, break fast" lol.. or if u have frens hu r really loving each other.. wish them happiness.. n maintain it.. also.. remind them.. if they wan a good campfire.. feed the fire together.. =p

wtf??!!! i cant imagine i type so mucccch!!!.. maybe sum of u will say its crap la.. lol.. neway.. if u think its crap.. then dun read lo..